Wednesday, October 21, 2009

Sit down & Shut your big mouth!

As I continue to study and learn more of the language that surrounds me, I find myself needing to learn new phrases which can't be found in my grammar books, children's stories, or New Testament reading. Last night was one of those times when it seemed like a good idea to seize an opportunity to do so. One of the new teachers at the Mission's Training Center was discussing language with us and commented that the only phrase he remembers from college French class is, "Sit down and shut your big mouth!" Some of us(Chris & I) found this highly amusing and thought we would practice our Russian skills by trying to construct this sentence correctly and then try it out on unsuspecting friends leaving the bible study.

All was going well, with the reactions ranging from looks of astonishment(the girls) to hysterical laughing(the boys), until I decided to try it out on my youngest accountability partner. The withering look that I received very quickly told me that some damage repair needed to be done. Basically, the issue was that she finds it very disappointing that a believer would find it necessary or amusing to add such language to his/her vocabulary. Ouch. That put me into my place and made me sit back and think. Granted, the first thought I had was that I needed to choose people with better senses of humor to practice my new phrases on. But then my second thought was that I need to be much more mindful of the new believers and their expectations of us. It was a good learning experience for me, as she basically told me without saying the actual words, "Sit down & Shut your big mouth!"

2 comments:

Phyllis said...

Reminds me of how the other teachers used to laugh at me in my early days in Moscow. I'd yell, "SHUT UP. . . please" in Russian at my classes.

Phyllis said...

yah, "rote zakroi' or variations thereof are pretty harsh, overall. Helps to run by new phrases w/s.o. who's gonna be able to take it if you cuss him out accidentally, as well as being nice enough to actually tell you what is/isn't appropriate in which settings, etc. (instead of just giving you the "christians don't talk like that" bit.)

I had the full-out intro to rude words and phrases from my first experience w/language learning (ranging from slightly rude/brash to completely indecent/censorable 4-letter words) from 3 years of living w/Russian teenage guys...

lucky me, eh? =)

Will